Vernon is a picturesque 70 minute drive from Kamloops. Ingrid and I blitzed up there on Saturday to have lunch with my sister, AC (Cathy AJ Hardy) who had some weekend concerts in the Okanagan and also my parents who live in Vernon. In honour of Mother’s Day (yes, I know it’s next week!), we took Mom out to the restaurant at Gray Monk Winery just south of Vernon. Editorial: Great food, service and wine. Go.
Do these people look like they’re in their upper 70’s or late 50’s? It’s hard to tell!
Chris and Max loved going to Grandma and Grandpa’s house. When they moved to Vernon, the adventures would usually be week long summer jaunts that included hiking, biking, swimming and the now famous, ‘midnight snack’! Another highlight was word games which Mom and Dad still play daily. Scrabble and Boggle were constants or should I say consonants.
I’m not sure why, but I was thinking about the noun GRIEF and the VERB GRIEVE this week. Grieve is an ‘action word’ if we remember our high school English teachers. Then I saw something very interesting. The word GIVE lives inside the word GRIEVE. We have been blown away by people giving to us during this time. I write this post from the Boomer family home in Kamloops where they’ve been so incredibly wonderful to us. (when Langley plays Kamloops today at 1130 in the semi’s we are really going to be in a pickle!!) From the lacrosse families to my brother-in-law in Vernon (Steve Wulff) who made me speechless yesterday when re presented Ingrid and I with a pencil drawing of Chris…the GIVING has been incredible.
Let me also tell you that our ability to GIVE has been helping us. A simple act like taking family for lunch or providing support to others has been incredibly helpful for us as well as we continue to find the ‘new normal’.
Is GIVING part of GRIEVING? Yes…it’s there in black and white.
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Thanks for the chat the other day. Made me feel a lot better.
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