Ice cream cake. Chris loved it.
It was his one food indulgence, but only then it was reserved for birthdays.
I heard the term the other day and it stopped me in my tracks with the clicker frozen on the TV news.
Surrey parents, Mr. and Mrs. Kaulius, were helping out the RCMP on a road check campaign specifically targeting drinking and driving.
Their own daughter was killed in May of 2011 by a drunk driver (suspected and in the courts).
That is a sad enough story and one that should cause us all pause in this summer season.
The fact that these parents were out there trying to raise awareness just months into their journey was amazing enough.
I felt the pain however when the Dad mentioned that they still had their daughter Kassandra’s ice cream birthday cake in the freezer, these months later. His voice broke as he told how they just couldn’t part with it yet. They had planned to celebrate but instead had a funeral.
It is something that you must know to know if that makes any sense.
I felt the pain instantly for this family as they are just at the beginning of the journey. I salute all they are doing in memory of their daughter and the impact of her legacy.
As I reflect on our journey it is now been almost 16 months.
This past June has been one of the toughest so far.
The knowledge of a high-school graduation that didn’t happen.
The knowledge of a college education and lacrosse scholarships that we were not able to see finalized.
All of that was extremely painful.
However…I love the article written in the Langley times about Kassandra Kaulius and her family. Turning Grief into Action. THAT is what it’s all about. Action for your loved one of course. But I believe, action for yourself as well. Where are you going to go? What are you going to do? How are you going to keep on living a life that will positively affect others?
Giving is a part of Grieving. Remember that one?
There have been many days where I’ve add to sip some of my own medicine from blogs of the past year and more.
That’s a good tonic.
Have a great week!