Yah, that’s right.
I said where to start. It’s been a second but it’s been a year all at the same time.
I thought I might end this blog today, but I think I have about 365 blog posts after yesterday and today alone, so we’ll just get to them one by one!
Laying Chris’ ashes to rest inside the heavy granite chamber of the cemetery niche wall had a sense of finality to it, but also an amazing sense of peace. It was simply the right thing to do. Not only will we have a place to go and stand in the middle of these huge trees, but so will others.
This is truly a place that anyone of you can go and think and talk to Chris or remember. We just love seeing Chris’ friends. They are changing so much. Getting so mature as they move towards their graduation milestones. But more on that later.
The emotion sort of flowed a little for me at that moment of release. I realized that I had personally watched over my son from the hospital to the funeral home, the service at the church, and then back to the funeral home and then every day for the last year.
On March 25, 2011 it was time to let go a little.
Not let go of Chris. He is more part of me than ever before.
Simply, it was time to let go and let others also have a more physical connection to his memory.
Something that will live forever.
The bronze name plate is on its way, so you’ll see a simple laminated paper scan of the work for the next few weeks.
You are welcome anytime….between 9 and dusk that is!
AC was there and sang Love Shines in the middle of those amazing trees. It was awesome. Not only that, she had set her sights on completing her new CD on March 25 and wouldn’t you know it, she picked up 2,000 copies that morning. We’ve played it all weekend. Love it Cath.
I want to invite you all to her gala concert at the wonderfully acoustic Matsqui Auditorium in Clearbrook on Sat, April 16. (Yes, that is on the VALLEY side of the Port Mann Bridge for my Vancouver readers…(just a little running joke with some of you!))
I’m pretty proud of that girl. You can read a great newspaper story on her music here.
Here’s a few pics from the cemetery so you get a sense.
At 2:32:41 we released some balloons and looked up and said hi to Chris.
I know many of you did too.